Written by Brad Lain ...
Columbus, Indiana ..

Brad's paper
A LIFELONG PUZZLE AFFECTING THE BRAIN
AUTISM IS NOW THOUGHT TO AFFECT ONE IN FIVE HUNDRED PEOPLE
PEOPLE WHO HAVE AUTISM DO NOT RECOGNISE FACES AND GET PEOPLE
CONFUSED WITH OTHER PEOPLE ALL THE TIME
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM NEEDS A LOT OF PATIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING
SOMETIMES PEOPLE WITH AUTISM DO NOT ASSOCIATE ONE THING AS
HAVING TO DO WITH ANOTHER UNLESS IT IS EXPLAINED TO THEM
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM LIKE TO MAKE ASSOCIATIONS THAT NEEDS TO BE
EXPLAINED FOR OTHERS TO UNDERSTAND
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM HAVE A LOT OF SENSORY PROBLEMS
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM LIKE TO STAY BUSY
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM TAKE THINGS LITERALLY
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM HAVE A PHOTOGRAPHIC MEMORY
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM LIKE TO SPEND SOME TIME WITH THEMSELVES
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM THINK THAT OTHERS KNOW WHAT THEY ARE THINKING WITHOUT TELLING THEM
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM ARE VISUAL LEARNERS
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM DO NOT UNDERSTAND PUNISHMENT AS HAVING TO DO WITH SOMETHING THEY DID
WRONG
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM GET TEASED AND YELLED AT A LOT BECAUSE PEOPLE WHO TEASE AND YELL AT
THEM BELIEVE THAT THEY CAN ACT NORMAL AND AUTISM DOES NOT EXIST
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM ARE VERY SENSITIVE TO SOUNDS AND SMELLS
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM SOMETIMES HAVE UNUSUAL VOICES
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM DO NOT LIKE TAGS IN THEIR SHIRTS
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM ARE VERY SENSITIVE TO CERTAIN TYPES OF CLOTHING
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM NORMALLY DO NOT GET MARRIED OR HAVE CHILDREN
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM LOOK NORMAL TO THE UNTRAINED EYE
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MAY NOT BE ABLE TO TELL OTHER PEOPLES EMOTIONS
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MAY SCREAM YELL OR HIT IF THEY BECOME FRUSTRATED
IT IS HARDER
FOR PEOPLE WITH AUTISM TO BE TOILET TRAINED PROPERLY
SOME PEOPLE
WITH AUTISM LOVE THE WAY DEEP PRESSURE FEELS AND THEN SOME DO NOT LIKE TO BE
TOUCHED AT ALL SO IF SOMEONE GETS BUMPED WHO HAS AUTISM THAT MIGHT MAKE THEM
GO FLYING OFF THE WALL
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM HAVE A WIDE RANGE OF ABILITIES
AUTISM COMES
IN ALOT OF DIFFERENT STRENGTHS
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM MAY NOT BE ABLE TO FOLLOW SEVERAL TASK INSTRUCTIONS GIVEN
AT A TIME UNLESS IT IS WRITTEN DOWN
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MAY NOT LIKE TO GO TO CHURCH
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MAY NOT LIKE CROWDS
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM HAVE MORE TROUBLE FIGURING OUT WHO THEY CAN AND CANNOT TRUST
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT START LAUGHING OR SCREAMING JUST OUT OF THE BLUE BECAUSE THEY
MAY SEE OR THINK OF SOMETHING THAT NOBODY ELSE NOTICES THAT IS GOING ON
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND OTHER PEOPLES JOKES PUNS WISECRACKS
INSULTS PUTDOWNS SLAMS TRICKS ETC
ALOT OF PEOPLE
WITH AUTISM ARE VERY CREATIVE
SOMETIMES
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM MIGHT NOT APPEAR TO BE LISTENING VERY CLOSELY AND DO
OTHER THINGS AT THE SAME TIME
SOMETIMES IT
MIGHT BE HARDER FOR PEOPLE WITH AUTISM TO BE ABLE TO DISTINGUISH RIGHT FROM
WRONG OR GOOD FROM BAD
IT IS HARDER
FOR PEOPLE WITH AUTISM TO UNDERSTAND LYRICS WHEN LISTENING VERY CLOSELY TO
MUSIC
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM NEED TO BE GIVEN CHOICES WHEN THEY NEED TO MAKE A DECISION
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT SAY THEY WANT TO STOP SOMEWHERE OR THEY MAY NOT SAY THEY
SEE SOME PLACE THEY WANT TO STOP AT AND YOU JUST DRIVE RIGHT PAST THE PLACE
THEY SEE OR THAT THEY WANT TO STOP AT AND THEY MAY GET VERY SURPRISED OR
UPSET IF YOU ARE DRIVING DOWN THE ROAD AND THE DRIVER DOES NOT STOP THATS
BECAUSE THE DRIVER THINKS NOBODY WANTS TO STOP BUT REALLY THE PERSON WITH
AUTISM DOES BUT THE REASON THEY WILL NOT SAY THEY WANT TO STOP IS BECAUSE
THE PERSON WITH AUTISM THINKS THE DRIVER ALREADY KNOWS WITHOUT TELLING HIM
OR HER
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM THINK OTHERS KNOW WHAT THEY ARE THINKING ALL THE TIME
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MAY TRY TO KEEP THEIR CLOTHING OFF OF THEIR BODIES BECAUSE THEY MAY
NOT LIKE THE WAY IT FEELS ON THEIR SKIN OR THEY MAY NOT UNDERSTAND WHY THEY
HAVE THE CLOTHING ON THAT THEY DO SO THEY MAY JUST TRY TO KEEP TAKING THEIR
CLOTHING OFF
ALOT OF PEOPLE WITH AUTISM MAY HAVE SEASONAL AFFECTIVE DISORDER
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT GET SAME SOUNDING WORDS MIXED UP THAT HAVE DIFFERENT MEANINGS
AND SPELLINGS SUCH AS KNOW AND NO FOR FORE AND FOUR TWO TOO AND TO MALE AND
MAIL WINE AND WHINE DOE AND DOUGH KNIGHT AND NIGHT BARE AND BEAR POOR POUR
AND PORE WRITE RITE AND RIGHT GREAT AND GRATE FARE AND FAIR DEAR AND DEER
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM NEED TO BE TOLD IF THERE WILL BE A CHANGE IN THEIR ROUTINE
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MAY NOT TAKE THINGS AS SERIOUSLY AS NORMAL PEOPLE DO
IT IS VERY
UNCOMFORTABLE FOR PEOPLE WITH AUTISM TO HAVE SOMEBODY FOLLOWING THEM SO
CLOSELY THAT THEY CANNOT SEE THE FRONT BUMPER OF THE VEHICLE BEHIND THEM
SOMETIMES
PEOPLE WITH AUTISM MAY NOT KNOW WHEN THEY BECOME THIRSTY AND NEED TO DRINK
PLENTY OF FLUIDS
AUTISM USED TO
BE BLAMED ON POOR PARENTING BUT NOW THEY KNOW IT IS CAUSED BY A PROBLEM IN
THE BRAIN
SOME PEOPLE
WITH AUTISM MAY NOT LIKE TO TALK ON THE TELEPHONE BECAUSE PEOPLES VOICES
SOUND DIFFERENTLY OVER THE TELEPHONE THAN THEY DO IN PERSON AND IT IS ALSO
HARD TO UNDERSTAND WORD FOR WORD WHAT THEY ARE SAYING AND PEOPLE WITH AUTISM
MAY NOT LIKE TO TALK OVER THE MICROPHONE BECAUSE THEY CAN ACTUALLY HEAR
THEIR VOICE SOUND DIFFERENTLY AND IT MIGHT MAKE THEM NERVOUS TO HEAR THEIR
VOICE SOUND DIFFERENTLY
SOME PEOPLE
WITH AUTISM MAY NOT LIKE THE WAY CIGARETTE SMOKE SMELLS MORE THAN NORMAL
PEOPLE
SOME PEOPLE
WITH AUTISM MAY NOT GET DIAGNOSED UNTIL THEY ARE AT AN OLDER AGE
SOME PEOPLE
WITH AUTISM MAY THINK SOME THINGS ARE FUNNY AND START LAUGHING WHEN THERE IS
NOTHING FUNNY AT ALL
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT SAY OR DO THINGS THAT THEY THINK ARE VERY VERY FUNNY AND THEY
THINK IT WONT GET THEM INTO TROUBLE BUT THEY DONT UNDERSTAND WHY IT GETS
THEM INTO TROUBLE AND SINCE THEY THINK IT IS VERY FUNNY THEY ASSUME THAT
EVERY BODY ELSE THINKS IT IS FUNNY TOO
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO BE RUDE
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT TRY TO SAY OR PRONOUNCE WORDS THE EXACT WAY THEY ARE SPELLED
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM HAVE ALOT MORE PROBLEMS WITH ALLERGIES LIKE MOLD POLLEN DUST AIR
POLLUTION SMOKE
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM LIKE TO JUMP SWING SPIN STAND ON THEIR HEAD BE IN WATER STOMP THEIR
FEET BECAUSE THEY HAVE SENSORY PROBLEMS
THERE ARE ALOT
OF THINGS THAT NORMAL PEOPLE WOULD CONSIDEER THEM BEING RUDE BUT PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM WOULD CONSIDER THEM FUNNY
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT RECOGNISE WHERE A PERSONS YARD STOPS ANOTHER BEGINS
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM LIKE TO KEEP A ROUTINE SET UP AND IF SOMETHING IS GOING TO HAPPEN
THAT IS NOT SET UP IN THEIR ROUTINE THERE MIGHT BE A CHANCE OF SERVICE
PROBLEMS UNLESS YOU LET THEM KNOW AHEAD OF TIME IF THERE IS GOING TO BE ANY
CHANGE IN THEIR ROUTINE
ALOT OF THE TIME PEOPLE WITH AUTISM MIGHT THINK THEY ARE DOING SOMETHING
GOOD WHEN NORMAL PEOPLE THINK THEY ARE BAD SO INSTEAD OF PUNISHING THEM TRY
TO EXPLAIN TO THEM WHAT THEY DID WAS BAD BECAUSE THEY PROBABLY WILL NOT
UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE PUNISHING THEM FOR SINCE PEOPLE WITH AUTISM DO NOT
ASSOCIATE PUNISHMENT AS HAVING TO DO WITH SOMETHING THEY DID WRONG
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT LIKE TO USE A MIRROR BECAUSE OF THE REVERSE EFFECT FOR
INSTANCE IF SOMEONE WITH AUTISM IS WASHING THEIR FACE ON THE RIGHT SIDE IN A
MIRROR TO THEM IT WOULD LOOK LIKE THEY WOULD BE WASHING THE LEFT SIDE OF
THEIR FACE WHICH CAN CAUSE ALOT OF STRESS AND CONFUSION
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM WILL ALWAYS NEED TO BE PREPARED AS TO WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN AHEAD
OF TIME SO THERE WONT BE ANY DISASTERS BECAUSE OF ANY SURPRISES
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT LIKE TO PLAY SPORTS BECAUSE THEY HAVE ALOT HARDER TIME
UNDERSTANDING THE RULES
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT HAVE THEIR OWN SET OF RULES THAT THEY EXPECT EVERYONE TO FOLLOW
THEM AND THERE MIGHT BE A DISASTER IF THEY DONT FOLLOW THEM PROPERLY
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT LIKE TO TAKE THEIR MEDICATIONS BECAUSE THEY DO NOT REALIZE
WHAT IT IS FOR OR THEY DO NOT LIKE THE WAY IT TASTES SINCE THEY HAVE
STRONGER SENSES
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM LIKE TO KEEP A ROUTINE SET UP AND IF SOMETHING IS GOING TO HAPPEN
THAT IS NOT SET UP IN THEIR ROUTINE THERE MIGHT BE A CHANCE OF SEVERE
PROBLEMS UNLESS YOU LET THEM KNOW AHEAD OF TIME IF THERE IS GOING TO BE ANY
CHANGES IN THEIR ROUTINE
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT NOT LIKE TO EAT CERTAIN TYPES OF FOODS BECAUSE OF THE TEXTURE
TASTE SMELL AND LOOKS
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM GET LOST ALOT EASIER AND QUICKER IN CLOSED CONCEPT BUILDINGS LIKE
COLUMBUS EAST HIGH SCHOOL THAT HAVE SO MANY FLOOR TO THE CEILING WALLS AND
HARDLY NO WINDOWS INSIDE THE BUILDING AND WITH PEOPLE WITH AUTISM GETTING
TEASED AND PICKED ON ALOT BECAUSE OF THIS PROBLEM IF THE PARENTS HAVE A
CHILD IN SCHOOL WITH AUTISM PLEASE DO EVERY THING YOU CAN DO TO GET YOUR
CHILD THEIR OWN RIDE DURING SCHOOL TIME BECAUSE YOUR CHILD OR RELATIVE OR
FRIEND OR ADVOCATE DOES NOT DESERVE TO GO THROUGH GETTING TEASED AND PICKED
ON ALOT OR GETTING LOST ALL TIME BECAUSE OF THEIR AUTISM
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT LIKE TO HOARD THINGS THAT THEY SEE THEY WANT
PEOPLE WITH
AUTISM MIGHT CUSS BECAUSE THEY HAVE HEARD THE WORD SAID OUT LOUD AND THEY
THOUGHT IT SOUNDED REALLY FUNNY BUT THEY DO NOT REALIZE WHAT IT REALLY MEANS
This paper was written by Brad Lain. Brad
is 28 years old, and was born on March 15, 1975, he was diagnosed with
Asperger's Syndrome at the age of 16. It was then, after many years of
struggling to find a place in the world where he could live in peace, Brad
wrote this paper. At this time he encountered problems relating to the
people with whom he was expected to work. Because they had no knowledge of
his disability, it was his intention to educate the community with his
personal perspective on Autism Spectrum Disorders. Brad does not like to use
a keyboard, so the entire paper was created with a paint program. One in
which he made all the letters, then, cut and pasted them to form this paper.
Brad's paper has been used as training materials by several therapists and
social workers. Brad also enjoys sharing his thoughts with almost everyone
he meets.
CONTACT BRAD AT:
BradLain@insightbb.com
he would like to hear from you...
or visit Brad's website at
http://bradlain.home.insightbb.com
I would like to thank Brad for allowing us to put his incredible paper on
our website. The reason why we feel it's so important is because Brad gives
you such an enlightening explanation on what a person with Autism may be
experiencing that as parents we found it to be very helpful on so many
levels. So that you Brad for your sensitivity, your generousity and for
being you.
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